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Fashion PR expert, founder of Alise Collective and industry insider Dria Murphy knows all about luxury. And this time of year, she's here to remind you that it's important to treat yourself, not just others (though that's important, too). See the 10 ways she's indulging, and prepare for some serious self-care inspiration.
Order In
"Who doesn't love sleeping in and ordering room service? My mornings usually consist of waking up early for meetings, so enjoying a gorgeous hotel with breakfast in bed (or breakfast in my own bed for that matter) is a treat."
SHOP NOW Eberjey pajama set, $115, bloomingdales.com
Accessorize Accordingly
"I adore a winter white accessory and a great scent, like Alexander McQueen For Her. This mini Tory Burch satchel is perfect for all of my upcoming holiday parties—the ladylike structure dresses up any outfit, and it pairs well with my favorite Sunday Forever bracelets!"
SHOP NOW Tory Burch bag, $448, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW Alexander McQueen perfume, $395, bloomingdales.com
Shop with Spirit
"I take in New York City's holiday energy by spending time uptown viewing the department store windows and picking out gifts for family and friends. A cozy coat goes a long way to keep me comfortable."
SHOP NOW Mackage coat, $850, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW Tory Burch sunglasses (similar), $170, bloomingdales.com
Shine On
"I am always on the hunt for a good-sized, everyday crossbody bag, and this metallic Burberry purse definitely meets that criteria. I'll use it all the time!"
SHOP NOW 7 For All Mankind jeans, $229, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW Burberry bag, $1,450, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW Joie bomber jacket, $368, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW Marc Fisher LTD. booties (similar), $179, bloomingdales.com
Take a Time-Out
"I try to take a staycation in New York City during the holidays. The Sixty SoHo hotel is one of my favorite places. The décor is super chic."
SHOP NOW Tommy Jeans hoodie, $79, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW Nobody jeans (similar), $239, bloomingdales.com
Spray Away Stress
"Picking a fragrance is very personal, and I like to change up my scent from time to time. The Tiffany & Co. Eau de Parfum is a great night-out option, and the bottle looks beautiful in my dressing area, too."
SHOP NOW Tiffany & Co. perfume, $130, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW Jo Malone London cologne, $135, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW Yves Saint Laurent perfume, $122, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW Acqua di Parma cologne, $110, bloomingdales.com
Go Bold
"These red pants give such a pop for the holidays. They're easily paired with a cozy sweater or dressed up, and I plan on wearing them a ton through the new year, especially with this bag, which is just eye-catching enough."
SHOP NOW 7 For All Mankind jeans, $199, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW Marc Jacobs bag, $395, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW Sanctuary sweater (similar), $89, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW Elizabeth and James bomber jacket (similar), $995, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW SJP by Sarah Jessica Parker pumps (similar), $350, bloomingdales.com
Mix and Mingle
"Even though I live in a relatively small space, I really enjoy entertaining. I create a cozy environment with plenty of cocktails and some sort of cheese plate. And yes, my friends can vouch for this."
SHOP NOW Michael Aram cheese board, $175, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW Michael Aram shaker, $75, bloomingdales.com
Arrive in Style
"I am obsessed with the fur accent on this Mackage parka. It makes running to and from the gym in the freezing cold less miserable."
SHOP NOW Mackage parka, $790, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW Alo Yoga leggings, $122, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW APL sneakers, $140, bloomingdales.com
Work it Out
"During the month of December it's always hard to make time for a workout, so it becomes more of a luxury during the holiday season. When I can find the time, it feels like I'm really taking care of myself."
SHOP NOW Calvin Klein Jeans tee, $39, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW Alo Yoga leggings (similar), $120, bloomingdales.com
SHOP NOW APL sneakers, $165, bloomingdales.com
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